Have you ever watched your husband change a diaper, feed your baby, or take them out for the day and wonder to yourself…”I’m never letting him touch my baby again.” Good news for you then. This dad (who nails it by the way), shared an instructional video on “how to” with the baby. He teaches everything from diaper changing to taking a baby on an airplane flight. Have your husband’s watch this instructional video and you’ll never have to worry about leaving him alone with the little ones again.
Moms who breastfeed have all been in this scenario. Where have you had to pump or nurse your baby that you said you will never do it again. For me, it was the bathroom. Now I’m stuck in a situation at work.
Watch this and tell me your opinion:
No matter what, I will continue pumping at work. This will not stop me!
I’m pretty certain you don’t think, or even want to consider that you child is a brat because of you. I mean…who would want to – after all that’s a tough pill to swallow. Parenting is an uphill battle most of the time (or so it feels), no matter what age your child is. It feels like you’re in a fishbowl and whatever you’re doing is constantly being scrutinized by strangers, friends, and family. If you’re too involved, you’re raising weak children. If you’re not involved enough, you’re a bad parent and neglectful. Now you’re reading an article about how it’s your fault that your child is a brat! Sigh…where does it end?
Although children might pick up bad behavior by modeling what they see on TV or at school, parents are still to blame if they don’t put an end to it. Some parents insist on saying “Oh it’s the age they’re at.” In certain cases that’s true, but using it as a crutch or excuse for their behavior is not the way to help them. Elaine Rose Glickman, author of Your Kid’s a Brat and its All Your Fault says “If we don’t teach our kids a better way, nobody else is stepping up to do so.”
There are ways to stop that bratty behavior. First step is realizing what you’re doing to contribute to it. Don’t get defensive and place blame on someone or someplace else. For example while your child is whining, biting or hitting, saying that’s just what toddlers do could be setting you up for a rough ride ahead. Even at a young age, you must have consequences for your child past hugging them. A hug isn’t always the deserved solution.
One of the other ways to break this behavior is to stop giving them a sense of entitlement. We HATE telling our children no. That’s natural, who wants to see their child sad? But when kids become accustomed to hearing “yes” most of the time, it ends up adding up to be a sense of entitlement where they feel like nothing is enough, which isn’t doing them any favors. When they hit the real world someday, they are in for a sweet treat when they start hearing no.
These are just a couple of things to watch out for as a parent. Go to Popsugar.com to read about more ways to break this cycle.
Says a study by economists at the University of Edinburgh, Analysis Group, and University of Sydney. The studies show that firstborn children have better thinking skills and higher IQ test scores than their younger brothers and sisters, even as early as age 1. This is probably a tough pill to swallow for all of you youngest or middle siblings. Although I’m the youngest in my family…I kind of get it.
Dr. Ana Nuevo-Chiquero, from Edinburgh University’s school of economics said, “Our results suggest that broad shifts in parental behavior are a plausible explanation for the observed birth order differences in education and labour market outcomes.” This means that it may be suggested that it could be the oldest kids are receiving more mental stimulation. This doesn’t mean that parents aren’t providing the same level of emotional support to their children, the firstborns were just given undivided attention with tasks that boosted thinking skills to where the younger children…not so much.
Does this mean that parents are pretty much over it by the time that younger siblings come along? That has yet to be determined, but one thing is for sure. There is a downside for eldest siblings. There is a lot more pressure for them to succeed in education and career goals later in life. So, it’s kind of a toss-up.
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Thanksgiving seems like it’s the perfect pregnant holiday. Who’s going to give you a hard time when you’re eating for two? As you have your second helping of…well everything, nobody will judge you for it. Yep – unfortunately there is a down side. Why is there always a down side? Before you have fun gorging on everything in sight this Thanksgiving, remember that while pregnant, you are more susceptible to food poisoning than a non-pregnant person. You’re probably going to be pretty surprised and bummed when you hear what foods are off limits while pregnant.
Okay…this is a big one and huge NO NO while you’re pregnant and you’re not going to like it. No soft cheeses. Okay when your done screaming in disappointment, try to remember that soft cheeses like Brie, Camembert, feta, Mexican queso fresco, and blue-veined cheeses are often unpasteurized, which means they can harbor listeria (a particularly dangerous bacteria for pregnant women that can lead to miscarriage or pre-term labor).
I hate to be the barer of bad news, but stuffing cooked in the turkey is a real bad idea while pregnant. While the turkey is cooking, salmonella can seep into the stuffing. Now this might not be a problem for someone whose hormones aren’t going crazy from pregnancy, but for the expecting mom definitely not a good idea. You don’t have to give up stuffing, just don’t cook it in the turkey this year.
I know you don’t want to…but to read the rest of the list at Cafemoms…CLICK HERE!